by Nysha Nelson | Oct 28, 2015 | Time management
Growing up and learning to drive in an area of the country that has severe winters, I learned to keep the fuel levels in my car at least a quarter of a tank full. It’s better for the engine in winter. And if you get stuck needing heat, you’re covered for as long as the tank lasts! Just simply keeping the tank from running empty was a habit that continued until I started working from home. Then it seemed I was always running to town and a deadline was involved. The habit of always having a quarter of a tank began to slip away. Just the other day I was leaving home to go into town and realized that my gas tank was almost empty. I had to get gas. It could not wait! As I pumped gas I contacted my appointment and communicated that I would be a few minutes late. The urgency of gas caught up to me. I stopped managing gas on my timeline and my car inserted itself into my schedule. Now that I have noticed, I can return to getting gas before it is needed. In life there are a lot of little things like getting gas that manage us instead of us managing them, aren’t there? If we put off going to the grocery store, cleaning up, paying the bills… before long we’ve procrastinated our whole to-do list and now we are run by our tasks, leaving no room for the things we WANT to do, like create. Spend a little time managing all these small things well on the front end, so...
by Nysha Nelson | Oct 14, 2015 | Uncategorized
When I go to write my name, I write my name – Nysha, N Y S H A. I no longer think about how each letter is constructed. I don’t think about the up stroke, down stroke, and upstroke to make the N. I make the curve stroke and up then the stem stroke down of the Y without considering I’m making specific strokes. I have written my name so many times that I don’t think about writing my name. I just write my name. As an adult, writing is like that for everyone. Once we master something we can perform the task mindlessly. And our thoughts focus on other things. Most of the time I’m usually focused on how the heck do you spell this particular word. I have made the 26 letters of the alphabet so many times that I don’t think about it anymore. I just make them. Have you ever watched a child who is just newly learning to walk and there is a hesitance about their steps? Their arms reach out to balance themselves. Their feet are planted firmly before they take the next step. And yet they always start running with glee on their faces. As an adult I don’t think about my balance, my feet, or the mechanics of walking. I just walk. Because I have done it so much. So what I want you to consider about free-motion machine quilting is that when you start it feels awkward. It’s new! If you focus on practice, focus on making marks, gain the muscle memory with each mark, and at some point you...
by Nysha Nelson | Sep 23, 2015 | Time management
It’s no secret in today’s world that time is a lot like money, you never have enough anymore. At this stage in my life the time factor is even more true. Between my personal life and family, the studio and classes, the video project, and the book manuscripts… it’s a wonder I feel like I am accomplishing anything anymore. This recently came up when talking to a friend, too. Usually the topic brings up priorities, values, responsibility, and strategies. The first thing I thought of was managing technology. Everyone has their head in a smart phone or tablet now. And seriously, we used to function just fine without them. How much more efficiently could you manage your time if you weren’t constantly responding to social media or staying caught up on your news feeds? For example, another friend of mine went on a three day trip. After returning home, she had an inbox full of messages. I asked her if they were notification emails or actual messages that needed responding to. In her case the majority of the emails were the notification kind for likes, comments, etc. on social media. She had no idea there was a way to manage her settings to stop this from wasting her time on a regular basis. I have certain email addresses tagged as important so messages come up first on my phone. Those get answered. Everything else gets prioritized until I can deal with it. I do the same with texts and phone calls by assigning certain ring tones. When my ears hear these tones, I know I can ignore or listen....
by Nysha Nelson | Sep 9, 2015 | Quilting, ZenTangle, zentangles
Remember the last time you went on vacation? Those few days before you left when you anticipated the trip and everything was exciting and made everything you were doing to prepare fun and enjoyable, right? Life seemed brighter, funnier, easier, and probably more interesting. You weren’t even on vacation yet, but the mindset of being at the beach, on the cruise, or wherever you were going coloured all the experiences with the wonderful time you knew you were going to have. That is the very idea we need to focus on before we begin working on a project. Any frame of mind we have at the beginning will affect the work we create. The experience of working will mirror that throughout the completion of the piece. If we are tense, the work will be stilted and difficult to execute. Fearful? It will take longer and reflect the tentative nature that comes with fear and not wanting to screw up. Even too much excitement can cause a lack of attention, and have you wanting to jump to the next thing instead of focusing on the step you are on. Preparing to quilt I create a calm, focused, and at ease mindset. I look for music that keeps me calm yet suits the movement I will be making; feathers = flowing or classical music, angles = a prominent and steady beat, or pebbles = audio book. I spend about fifteen minutes with my Zentangle® practice where I use a marker and create patterns on a 3.5 inch square of paper. I focus on just the mark I am making at the...
by Nysha Nelson | Aug 26, 2015 | Free Motion Quilting, Quilting
When you speak English you don’t try to imitate Shakespeare, Whitman, or Wolf, right? You have your own unique way of speaking. You use the same words, sure. But you have your own diction that’s just as special as you are as a person. The same is true for your quilting skill. As a beginning quilter, I first looked to traditional patterns. I made log cabin blocks, snail’s trails, square in a square, hand quilted lines, machine quilted feathers, etc. I kept trying to create these patterns to learn the basic skills needed to create art in this medium called quilting. Do you know what I learned? Quilting isn’t really about the replicating of a pattern. It’s about creating a vision of your own. But when you’re first starting out, you can’t see that, let alone DO that. Right? Feathers – Before Feathers – After It takes time to learn to quilt. There are many, many hours of work that go into practicing to gain control to be able to take an idea from your head and execute it in stitch. You will fail many times. That’s ok. I still fail. At every roadblock, return to the creators that came before us to look for inspiration and solutions. You have to remind yourself, “I am where I am.” Don’t compare where you are now to where someone else is or was in their skill level. The more you practice, the more experience you gain, the stronger skill you create, and the more freedom of ideas that will begin to emerge in your quilting-not just to recreate, but create...
